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Oluwaseun Oduola's avatar

Very true submissions. Divorce can be so traumatic. Yes we fall but we we don't sink, we rise. Thank you always 'Boda Goke😍'

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Amala Okore's avatar

😊... Thank you is the only appropriate thing I can say. This captures the different emotions I have felt on my divorce journey. But everyday I see myself getting better. Like fine wine, made sweeter by the crushing. In all things, I give thanks!

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Dayo Shobowale's avatar

Thank you. Very timely. "Use your Pain"

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Olajumoke's avatar

Timely post. Thank you I’m sharing this with my brother who is struggling with handling a recent heart. I pray this post helps him

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Yemi Akinsola's avatar

No doubt about it, experience is the best teacher. I can say first hand that this is not theory but practical. It happened to me and I know what Goke is talking about. God bless your wisdom

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Oluwatola's avatar

This bless me in no small way. Thanks for being such a blessing

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Kenneth Oviawe's avatar

Great and timely piece. Forgiveness and letting go are vital keys to freedom but most people do not have the courage to let go

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'Dotun Busari's avatar

Thank you for this beautiful piece. Very timely. It captures every of the rollercoaster emotions and events I've gone through in my divorce journey. I've come to the point where I no longer blame myself but thankful to God.

Thank you sir!

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Ugochukwu Duoh Franklin's avatar

Beautiful piece ! You are enough . I go with this .🙏❤

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Taiwo Alawode's avatar

"You may realise in the process that there is more to your life and that you are more important than what someone thinks of you or how they treated you."

So true and relatable!

I experienced this, first-hand this year. I couldn't help but nod my head vigorously while reading through.

Thank you very much for this piece,sir.

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Joke's avatar

Very relatable except for the “let it make you softer” ....... hmmmmmm

Beautiful write up ... welldone

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Adejumoke's avatar

Everything written here, I have found to be true. Thanks for sharing, I needed the affirmation.

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Ngozi Okoye's avatar

Cry but don't cry forever, feel pain but don't soak in the pain, fall but don't remain on the ground. The illustration of torn muscles and the growth it enables afterwards is it for me. Merci Monsieur

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Adenike's avatar

Glad I came across this 👍

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Onu Comfort's avatar

For someone coming out of a bad relationship, the pain is not ebbing. Will I ever look back n smile... it seems like forever

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